uplift(release): fix(message-list): recycler view in stale state (#10459, #10478)

[rafaeltonholo]

Uplift both #10459 and #10478 to release

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[Approval Request]
Original Issue/Pull request: #10243 / #10459 and #10478
Regression caused by (issue #): #10181
User impact if declined: The Message List enters a stale state when interacting with the first item of the list, causing user frustration when deleting, marking a message as read, etc.
Testing completed (on daily, beta, etc.): beta
Introduces or modifies localizable strings (yes/no): no
Skips a database migration (yes/no): no
Risk to taking this patch (and alternatives if risky): No risk foreseen. This change is a partial revert from the commit that created the regression, due to some outdated architecture we have.