[improvement][helm] Update controller tolerations to use with directive for consistency

[komer3]

Replace if with with directive in the controller tolerations template block to match Helm best practices and maintain consistency with other conditional blocks in the template.

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✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 70.53%. Comparing base (84f61dc) to head (9b4aa8f).
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